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How Journaling Can Improve Your Gut Health

13/7/2022

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If you could change your mood, perspective or sense of overwhelm in five minutes, would you do it?

Journaling has that power.

I know that from the research, and from my own personal experience.

Journaling is my go-to whenever I need to feel calmer, less anxious and more focused.

What is journaling and how does it help your gut health and mental wellbeing?
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Journaling is the process of writing down your thoughts, feelings and emotions in response to a prompt or free flow.

It is a way to clear your mind, let go of stuff that may be driving anxious feeling, and bring perspective. It helps you recognise what is taking an emotional toll on you, (and your digestion!).​

This is important because our emotions directly influence how our gut reacts. It's called the gut-brain connection. (Read more about that here). 

By recording your experiences, or mental state on a particular day, you might begin to understand what aspects of your life affect your digestive symptoms too and be able to make changes accordingly. 💚

​Most of us know deep down that making space for self care practices would have a really positive impact on our IBS and digestion. But not everyone feels ready for techniques such as mindfulness or meditation right away and writing (or journaling) is something we all have access to. 

Journaling sessions have had such a profound impact on my mental wellness  I have included journaling sessions in my group programme, Ease your Gut Beat the Bloat. 

Journaling feels doable for most people and can be done from anywhere. It's a wonderful form of mindfulness without having to sit cross legged or chant, (although these are all brilliant self care steps too!). 

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What do you write when journaling?

Journaling is an opportunity to get something out of your head and feel better. You won’t always know in advance what it is.

Sometimes it is something you’ve been pondering... sometimes it’s totally random. There is no right or wrong. Write whatever comes into your head (freeflow) or write in response to a prompt.

I'll pop a few suggestions below to help you get started. 👇​

Journaling prompts for wellbeing

To help you get started with journaling, simply choose one prompt from the list below daily and write in response to it. Don't worry if you go off on a tangent, just keep writing and see where it leads you.

Once you're done, simply put your journal away (you don't have to read it back). Alternatively, reread it, underline any emotions that came up and reflect on what that means for you.

Journal prompts, choose one per day:
  • What can you feel in your body?
  • What would you like to let go of?
  • What's been great about your week?
  • What do you want to change?
  • What if it didn't happen?
  • If my body could talk, what would it say?
  • What is your intention for today?
  • What are three things you are grateful for today? (​You can be grateful for specific people or pets in your life, or even something seemingly as simple as having food in the fridge or fresh water to drink).

It can be easy to get caught up in all the negative aspects of having a digestive or bladder health issue, but keeping a journal can help shift your focus to all the good in your life.

What are the health benefits of journaling?

  • Reduced anxiety 
  • Improvements in mood
  • It's a form of self care
  • Allows you to process your emotions and make sense of it
  • It’s the most cost-effective therapy I’ve found
  • An understanding of what aspects of your life may be affecting your digestive symptoms so you can gradually make changes accordingly.

Tips for getting started with journaling

  • Don't judge what you write ✍️
  • Don’t worry if you are spelling correctly or it’s neat just let it out
  • Be open to it all
  • The pages aren't intended for anyone else but you 💚 
  • Some days it feels harder than others (that's normal)
  • If you’re feeling stuck, write "I am feeling stuck"
  • If you feel emotional take a break. Sit, reflect and simply look out the window. 

When is the best time to journal?

Write for five minutes, ten minutes or a half hour. The goal is to write something, most days, ideally at the same time each day so you form a new healthy habit. Get yourself a gorgeous journal that inspires you to take action. Having a beautiful journal will inspire you to use it frequently 😄

My routine is 30 minutes of journaling every weekday morning. That's what works for me. ​There is no right or wrong. Once you get a feel for journaling, you’ll have the courage to do it yourself daily and grow with it.  

So what self care steps are you currently taking to help reduce the impact of stress on your gut? I'd love to know so leave a comment below and let me know what's working for you right now?

If you’re seriously interested in restoring your digestion for good, and boosting your energy check out my free guide: Five Tips to Beat the Bloat (while eating foods you love!).
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Why Stellar Health's online group gut health programme is the best you'll find

14/5/2022

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You've spent years going back and forth to the doctor about your tummy troubles - bloating, gas, diarrhoea, acid reflux, or constipation - only to be fobbed off with a one-size-fits-all “IBS” diagnosis. Working with a nutritionist 1-2-1 isn’t financially manageable just yet, but you know there’s more going on with your body than meets the eye.  You want to get to the bottom of it all. So what can you do? Buy another elimination diet cookbook?

Hold your horses. Step away from the “free from” fodmap book shelf! I’ve created a group programme especially for you. 

“Ease your gut, beat the bloat” is my ten-week online group programme that will help you identify what is at the heart of your gut issues. I want you to help you find the freedom to love life again. 

So why is this group programme better than any other? Read on!

​What is “Ease your gut, beat the bloat”?

This is a 10 week nutritional mastermind for people struggling with gut health. We spend the 10 weeks exploring and identifying your triggers and figuring out the underlying issues. Then we look at ways to support you to feel better. We study foods that help your gut lining stay healthy, that stimulate digestive secretions you might be lacking, look at links between the brain and gut, and you’ll learn practical tips every step of the way. 

Live sessions with me each week.

Unlike other group programmes on the market, I am here on the journey with you. Each weekly masterclass is delivered live and you’ll have opportunities to ask me questions live, as well as interaction in the dedicated private Facebook group. 

This is a truly interactive experience, where you will feel seen and heard by me and others on the programme. It's an opportunity to really connect and understand your nutritional needs, learning how to look after your gut health and get feedback along the way. 

Plus, I've got some exclusive guest experts lined up too! 

Community spirit

This is the best part of any group programme! Feeling run down and embarrassed by your health problems can be totally isolating, so meeting other people who feel the same is incredibly refreshing and a huge relief! You’re not alone. 

There’s an old adage about “a problem shared is a problem halved” and it’s so true! Talking through your issues and hearing other people’s stories really does help, and it gives us strength and resilience to tackle our problems together. 

You can chat live after the Masterclasses, in the private Facebook group and share resources you find,  solutions you’ve discovered, or recipes that you’ve found soothing. My group programme will connect you with other lovely people who’ve been through similar struggles in the tummy department.
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Practical tools to fit busy lives

I’m not in the nutritional world to make people’s lives miserable! I got into this business to make a difference and help people like you. Stellar Health came to fruition after years of my own struggles, and wanting to find solutions. But I understand that not everyone has time to study for years to learn about nutrition like I did! 
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I get it! You’re busy, even in these bizarre times of coronavirus. You need practical tools that’ll help you rebuild your gut health. And I’ve designed this 10-week group programme to do exactly that. 

We’ll be doing a live cook-a-long in Week 5 and throughout the programme I’ll share sensible and delicious recipes you can cook and adapt easily (ones that don’t involve weird and wonderful ingredients that you can only buy in that one random shop in London!).  

Gentler ways of eating

This is not 10 weeks where we stop eating everything in order to work out where your problem stems from. Ease your gut, beat the bloat is all about developing gut health through nourishment, and taking the time to understand what’s really going on inside you. 

Elimination diets work for some people, but in my experience it's listening to our bodies that gets results. And it's hard to listen properly when we're tired, hungry and cranky, unable to enjoy food right?! Which is why I don't follow that path with my clients.


Save money

Working with me—an experienced and well-qualified nutritional therapist—on a 1-2-1 basis isn’t an option for everyone financially and I only work with those clients over 90 days, but not everyone has that time spare. So joining my group programme is a brilliant way of accelerating and optimising your gut health while accessing my wisdom at a lower price. 

On a logical level, think of the money you’ve saved from not going to eat out for the last few months. For less than the cost of a pub dinner for two each week, you can instead learn how to nourish your body with the things it truly needs. You’ll get a toolkit of resources and a new network of support to help you on your journey to food freedom. 

So you'll finally stop feeling worried about whether you should go for that night out (because where is the nearest toilet?!) and instead - when lockdown’s over - you’ll be able to confidently head out with your friends and make food choices you know won’t make you feel grim. 

(Plus you'll save a tonne of money on pointless supplements that won't alleviate symptoms or help your gut! Hurrah! If you do need supplements, I will give you guidance on what will truly support you, based on evidence, rather than expensive second-guessing.)

But you've tried everything?

Quite often, I am a last resort for clients who are at the end of their tether. You've tried the GP, you've exhausted the library of healthy eating cookbooks and have watched every food health programme on TV.  And now I'm suggesting that a 10 week gut healing programme could be what you need? I know it sounds mad. 

But I haven't spent the last 9 years helping people just like you to work out what's really going on inside their digestive system to make them feel so unwell, just to fob you off with a programme that doesn't work! I know that by nourishing your gut with the right foods, rebuilding the gut lining, and teaching you how to choose foods that will work for your body and your lifestyle, we can work together to make a real difference to your well-being. 

So what have you got to lose? Ease your gut, beat the bloat starts 23rd May 2022. Find out more here and book your spot on the group programme today! 
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5 mistakes you might be making trying to fix gut symptoms on your own

14/5/2022

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When you come away from the doctor's surgery with a diagnosis of IBS and you're told that life will always be uncomfortable, it's hard to see where to go next. You might be making some mistakes trying to fix your own gut symptoms, so I thought I'd write a blog post to help you.

It's understandable that many of my clients try to take matters into their own hands once an "expert" has told them that there's little to no hope for recovery. 

However, I want you to know that there is hope. You CAN have the freedom to love life again.  

Read on to see if you're making any of these mistakes...

1. Cutting everything out

This is something I see all the time. Often people cut everything out and eat the blandest diet they can bear because they don't know what else to do. It can be what ends up being recommended, after serial investigations and only as a last resort, however cutting everything out is pretty pointless if you don't work on the underlying issues. 

Usually, there are problems in the gut that need fixing or healing. And I always look at those factors before any diet decisions are made. For example, we'd look at how you can reduce stress, which is often a contributing factor for gut health by focusing more on foods which have a calming effect on the nervous system. Sometimes clients are taking anti-acids like Omeprazole or Rennies to ease digestive symptoms rather than  solving the actual issue, which could be a vitamin or mineral deficiency, or even too little stomach acid. 

Working with a qualified nutritional therapist means you're not on your own. 

2. Following a low FODMAP diet

When I meet clients who are following a low-FODMAP diet, it's usually a strategy that's been dished out by their GP willy-nilly. (This isn't a criticism as such, because GPs are underfunded and have limited time and resources to support their patients. I get it!) But if you're recommended to follow the low-FODMAP diet, you have got to do it properly. 

What often happens is people think onions and garlic are fodmaps so they cut those out but they don't do the diet appropriately and unfortunately it doesn't work like that. Excessive bloating, industrial gas and foul smelling stools are often associated with specific bacteria--Desulfovibrio spp and methanobrevii smithii—both of which can be picked up in a comprehensive stool test, and I can organise this. If you want to know more head here.

Following the low-FODMAP diet long term with no support can cause a depletion in microbials and friendly bacteria. Which is (in case you've not realised...) a bad thing. A healthy gut needs those things to do its job properly. 

Instead of following a low-FODMAP diet, you should join my new 10 week programme. We'll follow a much more enjoyable anti-inflammatory diet, with recipes that you can try and we'll even do a cook along. The focus is on healing, nourishing and rebalancing your gut, not making you miserable! You can live a happier and healthier life! 

Select the VIP group programme option and you'll have the option to include a comprehensive stool analysis test as well as a 1-2-1 session with me during the group programme. This is by far the cheapest way to access my expert knowledge as well as stool testing without having to commit to my 1-2-1 90-day gut health plan.

3. Taking supplements without support

In the grand scheme of things, taking supplements isn't altogether a bad thing. In fact, they're a resource I often recommend to my clients. Under expert guidance, supplements can be incredibly beneficial. With a careful approach your therapeutic needs can be met.

However, I've seen an increase in clients who are taking supplement advice from influencers—who have no nutritional training—they've seen recommending them online. Or perhaps friends who've noticed improvements in their symptoms saying, "you should try it! It's worked wonders for me!". Sadly, supplements need a really personal approach. What works for one person might not work for another person. It can be an expensive waste of time!

The same goes for probiotics. Often my clients tell me they've "tried that; it doesn't work" but there are may different strains of probiotic, all with different abilities. And many probiotic rich foods are actually quite strong and can be overwhelming on a gut that is out of balance. So my approach is to look at healing the gut first, fixing any issues and then adding in probiotics to build gut health.
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4. Believing that you have no problems because your colonoscopy is clear

So you've had a colonoscopy and it's ruled out the Big C, and numerous worrying illnesses, but hasn't given you an answer to your questions. That's not to say you don't have a problem, though. It just means that your problem can't be seen by a camera. Enzymes and bacteria are invisible to the basic cameras used in these procedures. And they're also unable to pick up how you feel and any bloating you might have. 

So while these tests can be vital to rule out life-threatening illnesses, it's important that we acknowledge other ways of investigating gut health. A great example of this is using food journals like we keep on the "Ease your gut, beat the bloat" group programme. By recording what you eat and when, we can work through your diet, identifying triggers. Ones that can't be picked up by a camera!

Another avenue of investigation, beyond a colonoscopy, is comprehensive stool testing. This provides information on bacteria, yeasts and parasites that can become problematic if they become too dominant in an imbalanced or unhealthy gut. These bacteria, yeasts and parasites can be more easily detected because the tests use technology that can measure bacteria's genetic material so they are more easily detected. Find out more about that here.

5. You're trying to do it alone

It can be really lonely working through gut health problems by yourself. Investigating triggers and symptoms with no support is hard! But it doesn't have to be like that. According to research, about 20% of the UK adult population have IBS at any one time. So you're truly not alone! 

Having to face all these difficulties on your own means that often you might face an information overload. You might end up Googling for ideas and getting caught up in searching down an endless rabbit-hole of info. Simply put, it is super-overwhelming. And it can cause you to give up. 

So one easy fix is to look for a trusted and reliable community to share the journey with you. Love or hate social media, it's a place where you can meet fellow sufferers and compare and contrast your symptoms. You can share resources, develop strategies together or just hang out. But it's hard to know where to seek support and who you can trust online, isn't it? Joining a group programme like mine is a fantastic way of creating community. 

Life doesn't have to be lonely!
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Have you made any of these mistakes?
Are you at the end of your tether?
Tried every option with no success?
​Time to try something brand new!
I'd love you to join my 10 week programme “Ease your gut, beat the bloat”. Each week we work towards your optimal gut health so you can feel better.
Find out more 
here on this post. Feel free to email me any questions you have about the programme and how it works. 
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5 simple steps to a healthier gut - in just 10 weeks!

1/5/2022

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What if I told you that it can take just 10 weeks to start feeling like a better you? No need to sign up for 3 month 1-2-1 package with me or another nutritional therapist, or buy hundreds of books, or hire a personal chef, just a simple 5 step group programme that gives you the toolkit you need to make positive changes. 

I have spent over 9 years working with hundreds of clients to help them feel better. They’ve gone from gassy and sluggish to comfortable and energised. Some have been able to sleep better than they have for decades. Clients no longer have to research every outing thoroughly for toilet arrangements before they can enjoy themselves…

And it’s all down to these simple steps!

Ready to discover what your journey to a healthy gut could look like? Read on...

1. Identifying your triggers & the underlying issues

When you’re chronically ill or in pain with no explanation, it can often feel like no one is listening to you. Like there’s no one who cares enough to find out what’s really going on with your body. I felt like that too once upon a time. It’s why I became a nutritional therapist. 

In the first of the 10 weeks of “Ease your gut, beat the bloat” we play detective, and I help you uncover what’s happening inside your body, and to notice what is triggering the reactions. We start to explore anti-inflammatory foods and begin rethinking what we put on our plates to ensure they’re helping not hindering our progress.

2. ​Learn how to improve gut health and about foods that help the lining

Next it’s all about exploring foods which support digestive enzyme secretion and balance your stomach acidity. 

Because the health of your digestive system decides whether nutrients will be absorbed or rejected, your digestion is key to your overall health! It is connected to everything that happens in your body. Your gut also makes decisions about which toxins, allergens, and microbes aren’t assimilated into the body. So keeping your digestive system healthy is vital!

We work through which foods aid gut health - probiotics, prebiotics and fibre among others! - and I teach you how you can eat these foods and incorporate them into your everyday routines and diet. 

3. ​Understanding the link between your gut and your brain

This is an important step. Not many people are aware that there’s actually a deep connection between your gut and your brain. But it’s been shown in much research that there is a two-way communication between our brain and the nervous system in our gut. 

This means that there’s a link between mood and food, and how different foods can make us feel. The health of our gut and the variety of our gut microbes influence how we think and how we feel. 
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4. New connections with people who understand what you’re going through

Opening up to people about the pain you’re suffering and sharing embarrassing moments can be like medicine in itself. And it’s a huge benefit of being on a group programme. You are learning on this gut health journey together! 
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Knowing you’re not alone, and being able to lean on each other for motivation and encouragement, is massively underestimated. You cannot get this on a video course. Live human interaction and experiencing transformation together is quite literally life-changing.

Meeting online every week with friends to learn and cheer you on is quite simply brilliant. Asking each other questions and giving each other respectful and reciprocal support in the group sessions, but also in a private community, is invaluable. 


5. Hone your culinary skills!

It’s all very well learning the theory of it all and listening to an expert harp on about fermentation and “good” bacteria...but how do “normal” people put all this into practise? I hear you! And this is why the 5th step is rooted in practical skills. 

You need tips and tricks for making life easier, not harder! And I will give you recipes and ideas for adapting menus to fit with your needs, as well as demonstrating how to cook some delicious food on our cook-a-long! 
After 10 weeks of working with me and finding new friends along the way, you’ll be feeling better and equipped to totally change your life. No more dashing to the loo. No more worrying about another unfortunate “downward dog” incident. Bid farewell to migraines. You'll be well on your way to feeling like the real you again!

Want to know more about my brand new 10 week programme “Ease your gut, beat the bloat”? You can find out more here on this post, and here on the programme page itself. If you have any questions about the programme and how it works, feel free to email me. 
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